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The tools for
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Co-Dependent SinglesCo-dependency is not reserved for hard core addicts, it is something we all deal with at some level. A healthy relationship with your creator means not putting conditions on the relationship you have. This way you are free to enjoy the unconditional love that is offered to you. Below are 12 steps you can take to fully realise the potentialities in overcoming our unhealthy dependencies that take us away from fulfilling relationship. You will notice these strategies are the same for other addictions. 1. Admit we were powerless over other people, and powerless over those substances and dysfunctional activities that controlled our lives. Admitted that our lives had become unmanageable. 2. Came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to soberness and sanity. 3. Make a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of our Higher Power as we understood that Higher Power. 5. Admit to our Higher Power, to ourselves, and to another human being, the exact nature of our wrongs, our shortcomings and our addictions. 6. Were we entirely ready to have our Higher Power remove all these defects of character. 7. Have we humbly asked our Higher Power to remove our shortcomings and addictions. 8. Have we made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all. 9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others. Co-dependent singles step 10. Have we continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it. Co-dependent singles step 11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with our Higher Power as we understood it, praying only for knowledge of our Higher Power’s will for us and the power to carry that out. Co-dependent singles step 12.Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to other dependents. and to practice these principles in all our affairs. What are some healthier approaches to relationships Start the Heroes Journey back to true self today Top of Co-dependent singles
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