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How to be Assertive

This stage examines connecting across personal boundaries, and being less aggressive in invading others space, or less passive in communicating your perspective. Not only individuals but whole societies have issues in how to be  assertive. Then how do you share your ideas and have an influence on your world to take up a  spiritual / less materialistic perspective on life?

We live in an era when it is not any longer appropriate to force your ideas upon others (if this ever was appropriate). And yet we all need to grow spiritually in community in an age of fear control. When the War Games Theory has been a dominant paradigm of organizational structure, where do we go from here?

As a child of the creator you have the right to seek guidance from him. To boldly approach God and live the blessings that have been promised to you. In you parents house shouldn't you come home, and make yourself at home. Same can go with you spiritual creator. For each assertive step you make you will find that creation will meet you at more than half the way.



Spiritual gift development and how to be assertive.: Apostles and spiritual coaching (exhortation and encouragement):
How to be assertive in encouragement?
The spiritual apostles often had very real battles with how to be assertive issues. Their stories show how through encouraging others in their life paths selfish tendencies are broken. They become spiritual coaches dying this to this egocentric self and arising as leaders to a new spiritual order. To become an apostle is to live with Christ, who having defeated death itself, become the model of how to be  assertive. Christ values of pure light and love came into pure expression through his assertive actions in choosing to follow his destiny. His victory at the cross and in resurrection became an encouragement in how to maintain personal boundaries under pressure.


Fruit of the spirit growth sign: Faithfulness:and how to be assertive
How to be assertive with faith?:
It would take a lot of faith how the kind of assertiveness Christ showed at the cross. And even after being crucified to have the clarity of mind to get on with the business of rising again like it was another day at the office. Even after death to have the faith to go on with the knowledge a faithful and loving God, knows you intimately and has your best interests at heart. This kind of faith and knowledge of how to be assertive could come about supernaturally, over time, in relationship, with creation.



Heroes Spiritual Journey: and how to be assertive:

The immersion begins. After confronting their own personnel issues like control and domination, the hero enters into the challenging eternal spirit realm of promises, where there is not any wanting for the past or turning back. The heroine here becomes aware of the choice confronting them and chooses baptism and, (like Christ who carried our sins on the cross), arises having concurred grave, grave attachments. Find out more.

Often in the Heroes Spiritual Journey Departure phase a call is given, and the future hero refuses to heed it. This may be from a sense of duty or obligation, fear, insecurity, a sense of inadequacy, or any of a range of reasons that work to hold the person in his or her current circumstances. The Heroine or Hero may remain anchored to past ways and associations. A false humility and pride may come over the Hero.

The lives of those who take the call and those who don't commit to the call are insanely different. This may depend on where your anchor is, do you fear what may happen to you in the spiritual realm, or what could happen to  you in the earthly realm. Forfeit the sweet musical call of creation and you may end up living a shallow materialistic dreams in your heart, but you will never know the true Joy of The fulfillment. A mentor becomes your greatest asset.

Meaning: and how to be assertive :

How to be assertive with compassion?
The tough guy superman approach gives way with the realisation of effective ways to conquer. The heart is soothed and softens as a  positive forms of self assertion help a movement to a positive commitment to change. And an understanding of how to be more assertive.

Everyday issues and how to be assertive:

-How to be assertive and self-esteem.
-How to be assertive and confidence.
-How to be assertive and anxiety.
-How to be assertive and self help.
-How to be assertive and counseling.
 

The Process of Drama Skill: and how to be assertive
Knowing when to press or probe and how to be assertive.

The leadership skill of knowing when to open up the possibilities, imagination, and creativity and knowing when to press for a result, an achievement, a victory.Realising how to be assertive.

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 Thinking
Impulsive Egocentric
I - Now
Stress Motivator
Fear
Structure XX    XX
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Consensual participation through sharing.
Characteristics I  I
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Expoloitation
Domination
Decision Making Dictator
King of the castle rules.
What my emotions say NOW.
Powerful get spoils.
Education Rewards for learning.
Tough love.
Demand respect.
Controlled freedom.
Family Gang battles
Build walls
Tests of loyalty
Struggles in the system
Community Predators
Outside Dangers
Vendettas
Life Space Anything goes
The mighty is right
Form gangs for safety.
Seeks attention
Comfort zone Stories of Conquest
See Spiral Dynamics on The Colors Page
Color: Red: How to be assertive?
Spiral Dynamics
How to be assertive in the jungle of life?
In Spiral Dynamics the colour red is about taking action to control others. The red hot ego is put not to get shamed but to keep up it's perception of dominance to avoid unnecessary confrontation in the jungle of life. It's about the great "I" and having others show respect for that I. Gratifying those immediate sensual needs of the self and to break any shackles that are perceived to bind. But it is also about the creative energy that goes with gaining self-control in how to be assertive
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How to Be Assertive Level Objectives

In this level you are challenged to master the following aspects of How to be Assertive.

Practice how to be assertive in maintaining boundaries in relationships
Find how to be assertive with press and probe methods of leadership
Learn how to be assertive in seeking the creators guidance
Recognise the benefits of learning how to be assertive in leadership
How to be assertive in your faith and trust in the spiritual reality of life
Learning how to be more assertive over fear


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